An addendum to ADVICE 4 is something that should be a no brainer, but unfortunately, judging from the attire seen on some groom’s mothers at their son’s weddings, it’s not. It’s an echo of ADVICE 1, but with a twist. THIS IS NOT YOUR DAY! So please, no extravagant numbers, no plunging necklines or high rise hemlines. Know what we had to do? We had to cite him out, Martin said. The problem with the system. This is not just…