Bender says two areas have shown some promise. One is training health care providers to engage with and talk with patients about their medications. “It’s moving away from the paternalistic approach of ‘You go take this,’ to ‘Let’s work together and decide whether you’ll start a new drug,’” he says. Is Tesla just a few years behind Amazon? Arguably not. The company is not a start up any more. It is 15 years old. Lunch led to dinner and lots…